The Two Ways Attorneys Approach Divorce
The first is to listen to the client carefully for ten minutes, cut them off, and tell them how ‘they’ are going to proceed based on how the attorney thinks it should go. Because they’re the expert, the field is complicated, the client is too emotionally invested to make decisions, and … well, you get the picture.
This approach usually involves months of promises, shallow follow-through, continuances, and a deep immersion into a process that is hardly a paragon of efficiency.
Movies are made about this approach. One of the best is the Coen Brothers’ Intolerable Cruelty. In this case, the title says it all. Fun movie, but no one would ever want to partake even a sliver of it in real life.
They don’t make movies about the other approach – the logic-based, rational method. Good drama (and comedies, for that matter) needs tension and conflict. The first approach has that. The second, our approach, does not. It would be boring if it wasn’t your divorce we were working on.
Our approach relies on a lot more than a few minutes listening. It requires interaction, communication, and problem solving on the fly. It requires a solid combination of common sense and book sense. We fill you in on what you need to know. And occasionally, our approach requires us to tell you things you may not necessarily want to hear.
It does not involve getting mired down in the system, and it most certainly does not involve endless promises and no follow through.
It does involve research, analysis, communication, figuring out what is best for you and your family and working toward that goal quickly and efficiently.
ATTORNEY / FIRM OWNER
Jenny has dedicated her practice to helping people move on. She is an active listener and a problem-solver. She understands the financial and emotional vulnerabilities of our clients. Her goal is to make the process as worry-free as possible for our clients. She and the team work together to move toward the best resolution possible for your situation.
Lauren has years of experience in family law and has spoke on a variety of family law issues. She has served as Chair of the North Carolina New Lawyer’s Division Family Law Section. She’s received several awards: Martindale Hubbell Distinguished Award, Martindale Hubbell Client Champion Gold Recipient in 2017, and the 2019 Rising Star Award by Super Lawyers.
PARALEGAL / FIRM ADMINISTRATOR
Mitzi has been through what our clients are about to go through. She brings her experiences to our clients every day. Despite all her (considerable) knowledge of North Carolina Family Law, litigation, and court procedures, perhaps the most important thing she brings to our clients is the ability to relate to them about divorce, blended families, financial considerations and starting over. Contact Mitzi
Jess has 15 years experience working with Wake County’s Human Services Department in Child Support Enforcement managing issues across a broad spectrum, some quite complex, almost all requiring a deep knowledge of North Carolina law and . . . well, you get the picture, she knows her stuff. Contact Jess
Two amazing things about our new, rock star receptionist, Becca Edwards – she nailed our (quite intentionally) complex application procedure, apparently with ease; and she subsequently interviewed so well we didn’t hold the fact that she only graduated from college in 2017 against her. Contact Becca
Ryan has a diverse background. Accounting firms, police departments, business owner and marketing. But his favorite thing is to help people and make connections. After coming out on the other side of his divorce, Ryan found his place supporting people living through what he did and helping them find resources. Contact Ryan